Lol how am I being "hateful?" It's pretty common answer that if you are on a forum asking other people and you tell them you have an attorney they're going to tell you to talk to your attorney. That's what you are PAYING him or her for - to answer your questions.
Yes I know what it's like to divorce. I got divorced two years ago almost. And? You know what I did? I emailed or called my lawyer ANYTIME I had a question. I didn't go on here or another forum. I asked my lawyer who I PAID to answer my questions and defend me. Luckily my dipshit ex didn't show up for court at all so I got a default decree.
No one said don't ask questions drama queen. We said go ask your LAWYER questions because you are paying him or her to answer those questions about YOUR divorce. Every divorce is different.
You are kind of a cunt and I bet your ex is soo happy you guys are divorcing. Obviously you have nothing better to do on a Sunday but be a raging bitch. Maybe you should pull that giant stick out of your ass and you might realize why you're getting divorced.
Oh and no most of the people on here are NOT lawyers nor do we have a legal background. We have just experienced things. Some people are lawyers or were lawyers. But not all of us. That's why you should read the RULES before you post and the disclaimer at the bottom. You can't get legal advice here. Just information.
Perhaps you need to get some medication or take some relaxation classes before you go off on random people on forums. I hope you have a wonderful week.