Yes, it is a lot of money. I do have my reservations about this balance.
My landlord has agreed to work with me over the last 2 years. I have been a long time tenant at my current address with a flawless payment history until the economy hit the skids in 2008. As a real estate agent, my business was nonexistent. I have since retrained to do short sales and REO sales and I'm now certified. Also, during this time, I've also been dealing with aging parents out of state.
I have attempted to move twice during the last 2 years and my landlord has encouraged me to stay by reducing the rent and even allowing large periods of time to get caught up. There was a period in which my landlord said he would waive portions of the back rent but I did not get this in writing. Over this 2 year period, the landlord has sent many conflicting messages. Stay, go, stay, go. Rent has been paid during this time, just not in full or consistently.
In August, I lost my mother and had to put my stepfather in a nursing home. I was out of town for 3 weeks dealing with these issues. When I returned, my landlord suddenly decided that was it?? 30 days to be gone. I tried to ask why now? The need to be out of town & out of the office, unfortunetly, is no longer an issue. He has given me such latitude in the past, now that I need it the most, no go? I'm just a bit baffled. I was hoping that there would be a way to allow approx. 45 days to get some deals set up and on there way to closing.
You didn't ask for all this, I know. I'm embarrassed and feel the need to explain, of course. Thanks again for your advice and your ear.