army judge
Super Moderator
My signature was not requested on the gift letter
The ONLY person required to SIGN the gift letter was the person who gave the GIFT.
You signed the IOU.
Why you did that is NONE of my business.
If your spouse didn't sign the IOU, he's not responsible for repaying the IOU.
However, if the donor makes big deal of the IOU, someone is likely to say she didn't GIVE you two the money as a gift, yet that's NOT what she told the lender!
The person alleging it was a gift would then produce the letter submitted to the lender to prove their allegation that the money was a gift, NOT a loan.