...The simple fact of the matter is that you are CHOOSING your path, it was not thrust upon you.
How dare you. You know nothing about "my path".....
I did NOT choose to lose my father 6 weeks after I turned 17.
I did NOT choose to get run over by a car while riding my bicycle, end up in the hospital with amnesia, back problems (which I never had before), enormous medical bills, etc. etc.
I did NOT choose to later end up blowing out my ACL in a different incident.
I did NOT choose to dislocate both shoulders in different accidents after that.
I did NOT choose to get carpal tunnel in both hands.
I did NOT choose ...... sooooooo much more.
I DID CHOOSE to overcome all that (and way more before and since) and move forward. Physically, mentally and emotionally. Learn to walk again. etc. That's just a smidgen of what I've been through. And that's just within the last few years.
Regarding this matter-
I did
NOT choose to be notified
many days after the house was listed that it was going to be sold.
I did
NOT choose to be told by my sister she was putting my mother in an old folks home
after she was already moved.
I did
NOT choose to call my mother on my mother's cell phone after I found out all this only to have my sister rip the phone out of my mother's hands and have my sister tell me not to call my mother and hang it up. Or to have my sister keep my mom at her house for a couple of weeks so I couldn't see her in person. Or talk to her freely.
And it gets uglier. I could go on and on regarding this scenario alone, but that's irrelevant to the initial question and is more of a personal nature.
But
the point is, I CHOSE NONE OF THAT.
ALL OF THAT WAS ALL THRUST ON ME.
The ONLY thing I CAN CHOOSE is how I respond/react.
I am by no means asking for anyone to feel sorry for me. No. And don't want any pity or anything like that. None. I'll have none of it. I only mention it to
highlight your ignorance of "my path" as you put it. And
your arrogance to even begin to think you can begin to know or understand "my path".
You know nothing about "my path". (Other than the little I've shared here.)
- "You shouldn't judge someone till you've walked a mile in their shoes."
I
DO CHOOSE to move forward after this. And will. And whoever or whatever obstacles come my way, I WILL overcome that as well. Always have. Always will. I would have been dead if I hadn't. But again, that's irrelevant here.
I can eventually figure out what to do with the car. That is sooo NOT what this post was about. (But for those who provided truly insightful solutions, I thank you. Some are well thought out from start to finish, ie: put a working car in storage and switch cars so I can work on this one. Although I still haven't been able to get the working part I need. But I digress.) And I have sold some of the MCM furniture I had in the garage which will cover at least a partial 1st months rent for a storage.
I am determined enough to find solutions for
whatever situation I may find myself in. Always have. But again, I won't even go there. I was just looking for some hopefully professional LEGAL direction/guidance from this forum. That's all. Nothing more. Nothing less. And to those who contributed in that vein, thank you for sharing your time, knowledge and experience. And
addressing the question at hand.
May all who have contributed in
any manner be rewarded many times over
in like manner with the same in return.
p.s. -for you spelling bee checkers, enjoy.
"Ignorance is bliss."