Whether she altered it or just tried to demand that someone else alter it, it was not only unethical, it was illegal. She illegally accessed the records AND gave another employee/department a hard time over what was in those records that she wasn't entitled to see. Asking someone else to falsify records is just as wrong as doing it yourself. It was not her call to make as to how the care you received was documented. She wasn't the physician or medical provider treating you.