and DONT suggest i go to a shelter...you dont even know what its like...i however do.....plus almost any person that practices the law has to beable to figure things out...its kinda their job...you have all the information that i could give you...and all you choose to do is act nasty...fine...i came here for help...not criticism....that,,you seem to have in abundance....dont reply if thats all you bring to the table cause i'm dealing with enough crap plus having to pretend i didnt notice just so i wont be kicked out