My girlfriend went to rehab and has been shut off from communication.

[leslie82]

Hi, my girlfriend was sent off to rehab here in Arizona over three weeks ago by her family. They took her phone before she left and they are telling me that they nor the rehab will give her my contact info to let her contact me. I am not upset about this for the reason that I want to keep in touch with her personally. There are multiple situations with insurance and property fees she needs to be dealing with as they were put off long enough already, and I can't inform her or direct her to any of it. First off, she crashed my new Toyota 4runner that was owned by me this last may. There is a case that has been ongoing and my agents need to speak with her for statements as well as collecting hospital bills from her. Her hospital and transportation bills exceed $36,000. The state now holds a lien on the debts. Sexondly, She is on the lease to my apartment with me. She caused a fire a week before she was removed and needs to pay for at least some of the damages as she caused them. She is also due for half of the rent. Her family and this rehab are jeopardizing her ground in all of these situations by not allowing her to reach me and not letting me even forward paperwork to her. They are slandering my name as well and I have proof if it. I am very upset as this is unfair to my girlfriend and I. We are both in our twentys and deserve to be treated as adults and have our rights. From what I know she won't be out of the rehab until next year. What can I do here legally, I have plenty of money and resources to hire any legal backing I need to. My insurance has 100,000 dollars in medical coverage for her and she's bills need to be processed by her so that they don't take action here, the other person involved in the crash needs settlement as well and can't get it until she is engaged in this case. Her parents seem to not care here as they are letting their ignorance and hatred towards me put their daughter at risk here.

Her family and rehab are jeopardizing her ground? Are you for real? Sounds like rehab is the best place for her - and you sound toxic as hell. She's better off hopefully forgetting about you. If you want money she owes you, better try small claims.

Her parents seem to care enough to put her in treatment for her issues where you are just worried about yourself and your money. She's there til next year? Good for her.

 

[leslie82]

This can pretty much all be resolved in a day from her over the phone. I don't see how this impacts her recovery as she is somewhat aware that she didn't deal with any of this before she was taken. Her family must assume since I'm wealthy that I will pay it all off and forget about it when I am most likely done being with her and I want my usaa check to fund my new Toyota.

Dude you're not getting ahold of her and not getting any money from her. Just let it go. "Most likely" done being with her? Lol she's going to be done with you once she sobers up. Pay it off and then take her to court to try to get that money back or just write it off as a lesson learned. I had to write off what my ex husband took from me and pay off a credit card he maxed. Lesson learned hard there with money.

 

[leslie82]

And might I add that I don't need to hire an attorney here. My family runs a top firm here in the state so I'm in a decent position to do this. I just don't want to go to them quite yet because I wanted to find a resolution without exposing my personal life issues to my family. But I guess I have no choice. I would suggest learning more about the situation before being very judgy on the poster. Very unprofessional and inexperienced way of talking to someone as a lawyer online. I am trying to collect no info on her medical status or records as I was involved from the beginning here. She told me where she was going before hand and told me she was going to contact me, and her parents told me that she's specifically not allowed to call me. Her mail is addressed to my location and if I took this to court I don't even know how she would find about a court date or anything, so just end up not showing up and making this hole even larger? Her parents are wrong here and have decades of substance abuse, they are the root of her addiction problem. I have overheard her parents mention to try and marry me and make sure "theres no prenuptial marriage". They are not good people. I guess I will take my questions elsewhere since I had no luck with you.

You know most people in this forum aren't lawyers right? Did you read the disclaimer at the bottom? I am going to say no you didn't.

Oh where did you get your medical degree in psychology to analyze her parents?