Proserpina
Moderator
ou're pursuing, just keep engaged in the pursuit. The true success for YOU, is in the endeavor. That's what it was for us. You win by simply being persistent, not giving up, because the pursuit of justice for your mother helps you grieve. It surely did for me. Remember, it's always about the journey, never the destination.
Thank you so much army judge. I feel you are the first one to actually understand what I am asking.
Yes I definately feel that I am fighting for my mothers honor. Yes my mother was ill and yes she was living on borrowed time. I understand all of that.
I guess what I was unable to convey is that even though my mother was ill and elderly, her physician that she trusted, to care for her medical needs, did not uphold the medical standard of care by following through and reading her X-ray report in a timely manner. Had she been afforded medical care they could have administered lasix to get the fluid off as was done in the past. This doctor had such a big ego and it disturbs me greatly that *he* chose when she would die. For my mother, I have to stand up for her!
I am so sorry for the loss of your son, I couldn't imagine. Thank you again for your response.
I'm not sure you understood what I was saying. I don't think you understood the medical mechanics, either.
The doctor did not choose when your mother would die, and based purely on what you've written here there was no deviation from the standard of care.
It is vital that you accept that because your own mental health will suffer otherwise. You are talking about legal action and no amount of emotional pain, or feelings that it's unfair, is going to change that fact.
I know it seems unfair. But that doesn't mean that it's illegal, or even wrong.
I wish you well.