Yes, there is much more to the situation and I suppose I did leave much room for doubt on my part. I will begin with stating that over 15 years ago I was in an abusive relationship and pregnant, I was 15 yrs. old. I was scared to leave and scared that he would hurt my baby. I spoke to my mother about my concerns and told her I wouldn't leave him because he was going to kill me and my family. Yes, police were involved, but never helped, how could they I wouldn't leave. CPS told my mother she could have guardianship because I asked her to take him. So that was my dealings with CPS and I did not mention it right off the bat because I do not believe it has anything to do with what is going on right now.
As for my son, he is fine. He did not take any of the prescribed medication that was left in his bag and he is too young to question. We are not sure what type of pills are in the first bottle because there is a variety of them. When I googled the name on the bottle it stated that it was used for patients that had lupids, not sure if that's the correct spelling. The other bottle of pills were an antidepressant. I called and left her a message explaining she could pick them up if she'd like, but have not heard from her. The officer typed a report and said we neeeded to follow up with our attorney if we wanted to press charges and because he believes something like this may be enough to finish what was started.
Now to explain the reason of conflict between us...I got pregnant with her son's child. This woman treated me kindly until she found out I was pregnant and after that I became Americas most hated in her eyes. She has verbally abused me, told me my son did not belong to her son, and would never allow her child to make decision's for his own child, which was stressfull for both of us. My child has nothing from them here at home, not a toy or article of clothing...nothing. I even asked her for pictures of her son with my child so that I could put an album together for him and she denied me of that as well. I am more so disturbed by the fact that this family had my child baptised without my knowledge until recently and I am baffled by them telling my 2 year old his father is dead, he's too young to know about that and that should have been up tp me to have dealt with the situation. The list goes on, but I am not on here to put her on trial I am here to get advise as to what I could or should do to protect my child from this disturbing situation. The day after he shot himself I received a call from my son's Aunt and she wanted to know if they could pick my son up the next day, but in the same breath told me that her parents did not want to speak to me because of what I just put them through. We had 4 conversations like this all the while I had told them they could not take him, but they could come see him, they wanted it the way they wanted it and never came to see him, rather they took me to court and acussed my husband of abuse. NO! He isn't even able to spank the kids because as he puts it, he feels bad. Anyway, we went and got a background check on him and everything was totally clean...nothing was found. The reason they acussed him of being abusive was because on fathers day they brought my son home with his hair cut and I expressed to them not to cut his hair because I wanted to wait until he was 2 years old...they didn't wait and when I asked my son's father why he did it he became irrational. He started yelling at my husband and telling him that he was his daddy and he made him that he was nothing to my son, and all the while cursing and jumping around. Did I mention all the children were out there? Anyway, my husband told him to get out of the yard and leave or he would knock his behind out (not in those words), he didn't leave and started yelling at me and came towards me, so my husband put his arm out to stop him and told him he needed to leave before he got upset. The grandfather jumped out the car at this time and shoved his belly into my husband calling him boy and telling him that he didn't want any of this...to make it short they left and our neighbor wrote a statement for us because he was outdoors with his children watching. I'm not sure if that answered all the questions but I would hope that was enough of a bigger picture. As I said before this is not out of malice, I just want to protect what I love the most, my family.
