It isn't that people don't want to help you, its we can't.
We can DISCUSS any legal issue.
We can't ethically, as lawyers, dispense legal advice via the internet.
You can, however, receive A FREE LEGAL CONSULTATION (possibly an evaluation) of your issues by visiting a local attorney.
It is best to meet with at least two attorneys, DISCUSS your concerns and possibly receive answers.
Think about this.
What if you acted upon advice received from strangers and it wasn't correct?
That is why the internet isn't the place to seek advice about important legal matters.