The advice you received from Seniorjudge is the best you'll get. As stated, if you move out of state, you could lose custody if you're caught. If you plan to go into hiding, then you shouldn't take that promotion. You would be very easy to find. In fact, any job that requires a SSN makes it simple to find you.
The court system may not always be fair, but it is what it is. Seniorjudge has advised you to find a way to make this work without committing a crime.
The court system may not always be fair, but it is what it is. Seniorjudge has advised you to find a way to make this work without committing a crime.