shrinkmaster
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AJ I fear her motivation is not child but saving what appears to be a doomed relationship.
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AJ I fear her motivation is not child but saving what appears to be a doomed relationship.
My husband's ex refused to put his name on his kids' birth certificates, even though they lived together and were still together and he was right there when the kids were born. She didn't have to say anything like she didn't know who the father was, and she never denied it was him, but she was allowed to leave him off the birth certificate because they weren't married. (Not sure why she did that, but it backfired on her a few years later when she dumped him and wanted child support and had to jump through a lot of hoops with DNA testing and all before she could get child support.)I think saying I don't know who the father is would cause some drama. I do know he's the father for sure and he'd be there in the hospital with me. I'm just looking for reasons to not sign right away until I'm more sure, without causing him to feel suspicious.
I came here for legal advice not personal attacks.
No one is personally attacking you. We're giving you the honest truth. If you can't handle honesty, go to a single mom's forum.I came here for legal advice not personal attacks.
By the way legal advice comes from an Attorney you share an Attorney/Client relationship with not websites who use non lawyer volunteers to answer questions
BexcyRex, anything a human being says (Good or Bad) is just noise.
The wind makes noise.
I make noise.
Just keep your head held high, live the best life you can.
We all have haters.
I could waste hours telling you about mine.
I look at it like this, if i don't listen, I can't hear.
That makes me laugh whenever I simply walk away from an argument.
That alone has changed my life.
The most important thing here is that you do all the good you can for that precious child you have.
Good luck.
"AJ I fear her motivation is not child but saving what appears to be a doomed relationship." I find this statement pretty insulting and it has nothing to do with me not being able to handle the truth. You don't know what my motivations are and what my relationship is like aside from basic points I have listed here. What you draw from that is your own conclusion and personal opinion, which I'm not here for.
I believe what everyone's been giving me can be classified as legal advice. Wouldn't you say? I think if I wanted to discuss my relationship I'd seek advice elsewhere.
Other than AJ no one who has answered is a Lawyer and AJ I may be retired and may not be licensed to practice law in your jurisdiction or in area of law your need requires. Again Legal advice comes an Attorney you share an Attorney/Cleint relationship with not website volunteers read this sites disclaimer at bottom of each page
This man posts the truth.
This website discusses legal issues, offers suggestions, provides links to various laws, and shares opinions.
Please don't misconstrue any of that as legal advice.
Legal advice can only derive from an attorney-client relationship, as does privileged, protected communication.
It's best for everyone here to remain ANONYMOUS.
But NOT legal adviceI do understand this is just advice.
But NOT legal advice
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